Suspecting fraud is a red flag! In other words, if things have happened that make you suspicious, you should listen to your gut, especially if you have seen more than one red flag of fraud. There's a reason that you're insecure about your financial situation.

Not having access to bank accounts that hold your family's money is a red flag. This is different than your spouse just having a separate account for "play money." But don't worry, your attorney can use the legal system to get statements for the accounts you don't have access to.

You'll notice inconsistencies in payments or withdrawals, or an issue so small that it would have gone unnoticed, until you used the Divorce Money Guide. Tracy is going to tell you exactly where to look to figure out if there is money missing.

I wish I could answer this question for you definitively. The truth is that many factors play a role in getting the money back. If your attorney can prove to the judge that marital money went missing, you could possibly be awarded more in a settlement or receive more equity in the house.

Unfortunately, yes. Cheating is lying. And he or she is likely to be lying about much more. And where is he or she getting the money he or she is spending on the affair partner? Probably from your family's funds!

Yes! Just because you're not working outside of the home doesn't mean you don't get a share of the bank accounts and retirement accounts. Don't let your husband tell you that you'll "never get a penny" because he's the one making all the money!